WELCOME TO THE PARISH CHURCH
OF ST MARY THE VIRGIN, SWANLEY
01322 662201
All Souls Day: Thursday 2nd November 2023
St Mary's places great importance on remembering those we have loved and lost. A central part of this ministry is our Commemoration of the Faithful Departed, All Souls Day, which falls on 2nd November.
We celebrate a said Mass at 10am when we remember all who are on our anniversaries of death list.
At 7.30pm, we shall have a sung Mass at which we shall remember all whose funerals we have done in the last year and anyone for whom we have done memorial services or burials of ashes. We provide some refreshments after the evening Mass.
You are welcome to ask us to remember a relative who has died and you are very welcome to join us at any of our services.
We also make available 7-day candles which are lit for the evening service and remain in church for the following week. If you would like more information about buying a candle, please download the form here, print it out and return it to us with your payment.
Every penny we spend on the Churchyard has to come from fundraising: we receive no money from the local council, government or the central church. If you would like to help us, please see our Finance pages under the "More" heading in the menu bar, above.
With effect from January 2022, the churchyard is closed to new burials as we are full. Previously agreed interments, known as reservation by faculty, will be honoured but we have no spaces left for new graves now.
In 2023, our annual Commemoration of the Faithful Departed, known as All Souls Day, is on Thursday 2nd November. All are welcome to Mass here, and the sung Mass for All Souls will be at 7.30pm. You can email Father Dane to ask for individuals to be remembered at the Mass.
Funerals at St Mary's
Please see below for Churchyard information
The first step when booking is a funeral is usually to consult a Funeral Director.
If you would like a funeral in St Mary's then they will contact us to arrange a suitable time.
We offer funerals to everyone who lived in our parish at the time they died, or else those who died in our parish.
Ashes
We bury ashes in the churchyard. We don't scatter: ashes are buried either loose or in a biodegradable container either in an existing grave or in a new ashes plot. We allow an ashes tablet of 12" x 12" in a mid-grey colour. To find out more about the interment of ashes, or to book a service, you need to come along on a Sunday after the 10am Mass.
You need to apply for permission to bury ashes:
It is unlawful for you to bury or scatter ashes in a churchyard, burial ground or any other place
without the permission of the landowner and payment of any statutory or other fees.
All interments in our churchyard require the full permission of the Vicar and the use of the Church's rites,
anything else constitutes unlawful disposal of remains and the Church will take action accordingly.
We pray each day for those who have died,
do let us know if you would like us
to pray for someone, which we will do
whether or not their funeral will be at St Mary's.
The Churchyard
St Mary's has the only burial ground in Swanley. We accept for burial anyone who lived in the Church of England parish of Swanley at the time of their death, was a member of St Mary's electoral roll (that's not the same roll used for voting) or who died in the Church of England parish of Swanley. We do not accept for burial, nor is it possible to reserve a plot in the churchyard for, anyone who does not meet these criteria.
The Churchyard
is governed
by law
In order to have any memorial, or any item on a grave, it is necessary to seek permission.
Plots in the Churchyard
cannot be bought
No matter when someone was buried in the churchyard, ownership remains with the Church.
The Vicar can only
allow a small range
of memorials
If you would like something he cannot allow, then you can apply for permission from the diocese of Rochester. This is called a faculty. This will only be granted if it is in keeping with the Church's rules.
The Churchyard Regulations
The Churchyard Regulations govern what you are allowed. Please see the yellow button above to click for a copy of the regulations.
